tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-77965221339612645912024-03-17T17:16:09.689-04:00God In The ShowerSteve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-42958842002286928472021-08-31T13:16:00.003-04:002021-08-31T21:04:22.573-04:00"Faith" (vs) Covid<p><b> I had just spent several hours working on a new Bible study. I hadn't slept well the night before, so I was going to take a short nap. Then, I find that there is "another" message. Another of the </b><b>of the "numerous" texts, e-mails, messages, social media posts regarding Covid </b><b>(the coronavirus). This one (again) questioning my "faith," saying I was "afraid," and that I was "being prayed for." This following one from the previous day stating essentially the same thing, and telling me just "to get the vaccine if I was so afraid."</b></p><p><b> I headed off for my nap, but as soon as I laid down, I knew it wasn't happening. I got up, and decided to write this.</b></p><p><b> Let me lead off with this: I have not had the vaccine for Covid. I have my reasons why, and I am not going into all of those here. While I am not adamantly opposed to the vaccine as many of my friends are, I have prayed about it, and I am not feeling led to get the vaccine at this time.</b></p><p><b> So, on to the "faith" aspect. Let's start with the <i><u>"vaccinated."</u></i></b></p><p><b> Knowing I have not had the vaccine, I have had one person (I am keeping this "gender neutral") after a Bible study that I was teaching find out that I, and others with me were not vaccinated, who handed me back my Bible study and walked away without a word. Another followed by telling me I was "unloving," I should be "ashamed," and said the words "If you get sick, don't expect me to feel sorry for you!" </b><b>When I explain my concerns about the possible effects of the vaccine, I am told that I lack "faith" because I don't trust God to protect me from those effects. That was the end of that Bible study.</b></p><p><b> Christians I know who have had the vaccine truly believe they are obeying God by getting the vaccine. They believe that they are doing the "loving" thing, to protect others, and that if enough people get the vaccine, this will all end. Therefore, they consider those who don't get the vaccine "unloving." That they don't care about the welfare of others. Many believe that we should have "faith" that God gave guidance and wisdom to those who came up with the vaccine. They also believe that we should have "faith" that God will protect us from any side-effects that could come from getting the vaccine, if there are any.</b></p><p><b> Then, we have the <i><u>"anti-vaccinated"</u></i> crowd. </b></p><p><b> Personally, I see this one a lot more, and unfortunately this is the side that pushes the "faith" aspect more. </b><b>Get the vaccination, wear a mask, social distance: you don't have "faith" God will protect you. Choose to stay home, and limit your going out in public: you don't have "faith," and you are "being ruled by fear."</b></p><p><b> From this side, I ("we," my wife and I) have received more articles than I can count from "anti-vax" people explaining the evils of the vaccination. It is "the mark of the beast," it contains tiny micro-chips, it has something in it that will make you glow, it will kill everyone who gets it in a few years, it is part of a plan to take over the United States, and more.... Many also believe that the effects of Covid are being greatly exaggerated.</b></p><p><b> Shortly after this virus first started in 2020, I asked a simple (or so I thought) question for discussion on social media: "If an unsaved person was afraid of Covid, but would come to your church if everyone would wear a mask, would everyone wear one?" This turned into a firestorm, with dozens of responses. I was simply trying to stay neutral. However, one (anti-mask) person that I had been friends with for years, and was at one time in a small group with, got so upset about my suggestion that perhaps we should, that they made the decision to end our friendship right then and there. I haven't heard from them since.</b></p><p><b> Of course, the <u style="font-style: italic;">"vaccinated"</u> people blame the spread of Covid on the "un-vaccinated," because if only they would get the shot, this would all stop. And, the <u style="font-style: italic;">"anti-unvaccinated"</u> people believe the "vaccinated" are spreading it because of what is in the shot they took.</b></p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b> Honestly, I have tried to avoid this subject as much as possible. I don't talk about it on the <a href="https://jesusalive.cc">website</a>, I don't post about it on social media, I don't bring it up in Bible studies (other than to pray for those who have the virus). As I say on the homepage of the website, my purpose is "to witness to those who do not have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, and disciple those who do, but are seeking help in their daily walk."</b></p><p><b> I spend nearly every day seeking to carry out my God-ordained purpose. For better or worse, my purpose is carried out by spending "hours" each day in a chair in front of a computer screen. I write Bible studies, respond to e-mail and social media questions and comments, do maintenance on the website, and more. Given that this is my life, I am not out in public as much as many people have to be, therefore, I have chosen not to take the vaccine.</b></p><p><b> When I do go out, I usually take some precautions. I often (not always) wear a mask, I use hand-sanitizer, and I even wear rubber gloves at times (i.e. when pumping gas).</b></p><p><b> I have not always done this. In fact, in May of 2021 (about 3 months ago), my wife and I (and my mom) took a week and a half trip out west, and followed that shortly after (in early July) with a trip to Kentucky to see the "Ark Experience" with a number of people from my Bible study group. I don't recall wearing a mask at any time (except on the plane, which was required). I pretty much went about life as "normal."</b></p><p><b> HOWEVER, things changed after that. In a short month and a half, I went from knowing only a few people here and there with Covid to "dozens." There has been a bad outbreak in Florida. So many people I know have Covid that I can't even keep track. Three pastors and families, numerous friends, dozens of acquaintances. The church I used to attend closed for 3 weeks because it got so bad. I know 3 people who have died, two who almost died, and many who have recovered, but are still dealing with symptoms. I thank the Lord for answered prayer for those who have recovered.</b></p><p><b> But, back to the "faith" thing again, here is a BIG problem for me. The 3 people who died; these 3 were Christians, these 3 were un-vaccinated, these 3 stepped out in "faith" to live life normally. They got Covid, and they died. These "faith" questions come to me: </b></p><p><b>Did they lack "faith" because they died? Do you have more "faith" because you haven't gotten Covid, or have more "faith" because you did get Covid, but didn't die?</b></p><p><b>Were those who got Covid unsure about what to do, and they listened to those who said they would "lack faith," or be afraid" if they didn't step out in "faith," so they did, and died as a result? (I don't know the whole story of those who died.)</b></p><p><b>Are those of you who are vaccinated going to tell the loved ones of those who died, "If only he/she would have had "faith," in the vaccine that God provided, they might still be alive today? (I actually have seen people do this over and over on social media! It's easy to be brave there.)</b></p><p><b> How do you answer these questions? I don't have all the answers, but here are a few things I do know. </b></p><p><b>I know that I would not want to question the "faith" of someone who got sick, or died from Covid. </b></p><p><b>I know that I would not want to tell the loved ones of someone who just died from Covid that their loved one who died lacked "faith."</b></p><p><b>I know that I would not to use whatever influence I have to encourage someone to step out in "faith" and get a shot that I have personal concerns about.</b></p><p><b>On the other hand, I know that I would not want to use whatever influence I have to tell someone that they are "lacking faith," or are "afraid" if they get the shot.</b></p><p><b>I also know that I do not want to use whatever influence I have to tell someone who has Covid concerns to </b><b>step out in "faith," and stop being "afraid, and then they get Covid because they listened to ME.</b></p><p><b> As a result of this recent outbreak, I (my wife and I) have chosen to take some extra precautions. We have been staying away from crowds. We have limited our "face to face" interactions with those who have been sick, or are around those who have been sick. We have been wearing masks when shopping. We do not look at this as being "afraid," we look at this as being cautious. </b></p><p><b> While many may disagree, I believe words found in (Mt 4:5-7) can apply to this situation. These words were spoken while Jesus was being tempted by Satan in the wilderness. Here is what they say:</b></p><p><b>(Mt 4:5-7)(NKJV) Then the devil took Him up into the holy city, set Him on the pinnacle of the temple, (6) and said to Him, "If You are the Son of God, throw yourself down. For it is written: 'He shall give His angels charge over you,' and, 'In their hands they shall bear you up, Lest you dash your foot against a stone,' " (7) Jesus said to him, "It is written again, "You shall not tempt the Lord your God.' "</b></p><p><b> In other words, Satan told Jesus to throw Himself off of the roof of the Temple, and then quoted (twisted) Scripture to say that God would protect Him from harm. This might have been true, but Jesus said that to do so would be "tempting God," or as other versions say "testing God." </b></p><p><b> Applying this to Covid, yes, we can step out in "faith," and dive headfirst (jump off the roof) into places and situations, taking no precautions, and acting like Covid doesn't exist, and God may well protect us when we do. But, in doing so, are we "testing" God? I believe this is possible, and I am choosing not to put God to a "foolish test" in this. When the number of Covid cases decreases, and thereby the risk of catching it, I will re-access what I do. </b></p><p><b> So, very bluntly, summing this up, here is my view on all of this. I am SO sick and tired of people trying to determine the "faith" of another person based upon their own standards of what "faith" should be in a given situation. Instead, why don't we encourage fellow Christians to go to the Lord through prayer and His Word, and let them determine what God is showing them. If they are wrong in what they believe God is saying, God will deal with that. You cannot know, and it isn't "your" place to judge the "faith" of anyone!</b></p><p></p><div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcEBTVKNm7q4BzdYJQ9JeDF0-29sktkvAe_FJ9cqgsFXW80HvtpEmSuOCbSkyS7nvTxDr9XQEl7u0uYx2PT458JuXXglOwk_04CGgoB-mwiZbFrBJTt03edDYP9StiHbPe6KFCYRazojM/s612/Faith+2.jpg" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="430" data-original-width="612" height="225" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjcEBTVKNm7q4BzdYJQ9JeDF0-29sktkvAe_FJ9cqgsFXW80HvtpEmSuOCbSkyS7nvTxDr9XQEl7u0uYx2PT458JuXXglOwk_04CGgoB-mwiZbFrBJTt03edDYP9StiHbPe6KFCYRazojM/s320/Faith+2.jpg" width="320" /></a></div>Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com12tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-11637737581675580082021-02-12T19:06:00.002-05:002021-02-12T19:13:01.273-05:00The Fall Of Ravi Zacharias<p> <b>It has been known for a while now, but I only learned about it yesterday (2-11-21). Perhaps the greatest Christian apologist of our time, Ravi Zacharias, who died on (5-11-20), had been living a double life . I first saw it mentioned on social media. Of course, that made me immediately skeptical, so I looked into it. It led to "hours" of looking into it. It ended with me on his website, reading a long apology from those still working in the ministry he founded. </b></p><p><b> The sin of Mr. Zacharias was "sexual sin." The charge was brought by numerous women. The details are graphic. I am not going into those details. </b></p><p><b> Just like me, when the first charges came, those at the ministry refused to believe them. Mr. Zacharias vehemently denied them. They stood behind him, and defended him. They posted their support of him on the website. They impugned the credibility of the women who had brought the charges. However, after his death, as evidence was mounting, they hired a law firm to investigate. The law firm found overwhelming evidence that the sex charges were true. Those working at the ministry, who had previously defended him have offered a long, and sincere apology to those who brought the charges, repented, and asked for forgiveness. </b></p><p><b> There is much more to this story, but I will leave that at that. So, why am I even mentioning it? Because this news hit me HARD. As I mentioned this on Facebook, and that I was removing quotes of his from my website, I received comments from several friends pointing out that I was "flogging" him for his sin publicly, or that I was perhaps failing to understand his "humanity," and that we must be careful about putting Christian leaders on a pedestal. But, it isn't that....</b></p><p><b> I learned long ago not to put pastors or Christian leaders on a pedestal. I have seen too many fall. Nor am I "flogging" Dr. Zacharias publicly. My favorite verse in the Bible is (1 Cor 15:10), "But by the grace of God I am what I am." I truly believe that if not for God's grace, ANY of us could fall. ANY of us could commit ANY sin. To me, one of the most dangerous sentences is, "I would NEVER do that." That is "pride," and "pride goeth before a fall" (Prov 16:18).</b></p><p><b> No, my devastation comes from three things that his "secret life of sexual sin" has left behind.</b></p><p><b> #1. Of course, the horrible pain he has left for his wife and children to face. The husband and father they knew was not who they thought he was. Their lives will never be the same.</b></p><p><b>#2. The impact of his sin on the significant ministry he left behind, and how it will affect that going forward.</b></p><p><b>#3. The destruction of his future legacy.</b></p><p><b> There is a quote from David Jeremiah that I heard many years ago, and I have never forgotten it. I am paraphrasing, "I could take everything I have built up over 35 years in my ministry and destroy it all if I went out tomorrow and committed one act of rebellion." Honestly, I believe that is exactly what Mr. Zacharias has done. His defense of the Christian faith was unparalleled in recent times. The truth he spoke, and his Biblical teachings are no less true because of his "secret life of sin," but their impact will never be the same.</b></p><p><b> For example, as I was erasing his quotes from my website, here was one of them: </b></p><p><b>"It is a mindless philosophy that assumes that one's private beliefs have nothing to do with public office. Does it make sense to entrust those who are immoral in private with the power to determine the nation's moral issues and, indeed, its destiny? One of the most dangerous and terrifying trends in America today is the disregard for character as a central necessity in a leaders credentials. The duplicitous soul of a leader can only make a nation more sophisticated in evil."</b></p><p><b> Knowing what I know now, can you guess what I think when I see this quote? And, that is my point. What he said in that quote is "totally" true, but knowing what he was doing when he said it.... It diminishes its impact. Honestly, one word comes to mind, "hypocrite." And, one of the top two reasons why many non-Christians hate Christians is, "So many Christians are hypocrites."</b></p><p><b> Going back to the David Jeremiah quote, one of the most terrifying things to me personally is that I have spent 19 years building the <a href="https://jesusalive.cc">JesusAlive</a> ministry, and in "one act of rebellion," I could destroy everything. I could destroy my wife, my children, those I minister to, my credibility, my legacy, forever.... I pray for God's help and strength not to do this: EVER. I set boundaries. I try not to open doors for the enemy. I try to be accountable. </b></p><p><b> "That" is why I am saddened and burdened by the story of Mr. Zacharias. It isn't that he sinned, because we all do; it is that his failure to "turn" from his sin at the first beginnings and repent has forever tarnished his legacy. I am terrified it will happen to me. Lord, please help me!</b></p>Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-16039479179681809052021-02-04T18:08:00.004-05:002021-02-05T19:54:17.758-05:00"My" Perfect Church<p> <b>Have you ever had a time when you get frustrated with your church? I think almost everyone has. Then, perhaps like me you do the: "If I was in charge, this is what I would do." In my mind, I create the "perfect" church. Of course, "My" perfect church will never exist. Why? Because my Bible based church is a mish-mash of doctrines and beliefs. One is associated with one "denomination," and another associated with another "denomination." One is accepted by one "denomination," and condemned by another as un-Biblical (i.e. different views on baptism).</b></p><p><b> In other words, I am definitely "NOT" Reformed, nor Pentecostal, nor Baptist, nor Catholic, nor do I really fit with "any" denomination, but I believe each has some things right from a Biblical viewpoint (yes, even Catholics - I respect their strong, unrelenting stance against abortion).</b></p><p> <b>So, what does "My" perfect church look like? I have made a list o</b><b>f things (not complete) that would help make a church "perfect" for me. Of course, I know that what makes a church "perfect" for me, is not what would make a church "perfect" for you. But, perhaps, we share some of the things below in common. </b></p><p><b>***NOTE: It is a given that this church must hold to the "essential doctrines" of the Christian faith: i.e. the infallibility of God's Word, the deity of Jesus, and His sinless atonement for sins, the triune God, the Resurrection. I discuss these "essential doctrines" in more detail <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/essential-doctrine/">here</a>.</b></p><p><b> Here we go!</b></p><p><b>I want my church to believe that <i>all </i>of the spiritual gifts are for today, but not to misuse them (i.e. like tongues and prophecy often are).</b></p><p><b>My church will "not" teach that babies are "born sinners," nor will it baptize babies, or believe that baptism saves.</b></p><p><b>I want my church to be a place filled with people of "all" races, who worship and grow in God's Word together in unity.</b></p><p><b>I want my church to be a place that, if we suddenly shut down, the community would suffer.</b></p><p><b>Since I enter into worship more with contemporary music than hymns, that is type of music my church will play.</b></p><p><b>While I believe the Bible is clear that women have important roles to fill in the church, they should not have a position of leadership over a man. (My church cannot have women "pastors.")</b></p><p><b>The preaching in my church will be expository! Chapter by chapter, verse by verse. (Topical preaching is ok from time to time.)</b></p><p><b>I am not concerned with what people wear in my church (as long as it isn't immodest).</b></p><p><b>Of course, my pastor will preach on "love," but will also preach an <i>equal</i> amount on "Hell and sin."</b></p><p><b>My church will powerfully share the Gospel EVERY week, and people will be given an </b><b>invitation given to come to the altar, confess their sins, repent, and pray to receive Christ. People who have a gift of evangelism will be at the altar to guide them through this process.</b></p><p><b>When I enter the doors of my church, I don't just want to be "greeted," but I want someone to actually engage with me in a conversation, and get to know me a little better.</b></p><p><b>When I leave my church, I want to feel convicted to change the world for Christ.</b></p><p><b>I want to sense that the worship team is actually worshipping, and not just playing music.</b></p><p><b>Having a vibrant "small group" ministry, to connect with others in my church is "very" important to me. I also want these groups to spend at least part of their time together in God's Word.</b></p><p><b>I want my church to place an emphasis on supporting missions work, and sending out missionaries.</b></p><p><b>I want to be able to use my spiritual gifts to serve within my church, and for <i>all </i>fellow Christians to be able to do the same.</b></p><p><b>I want to see and know that there is a solid group of elders and deacons leading my church that meet the qualifications for church leadership as laid out in the Bible: <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/bishop-elder-qualifications-responsibilities/">Elders</a> / <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/deacon-qualifications-responsibilities/">Deacons</a>.</b></p><p><b>If I have a need for prayer, I want to know that there is a group of "prayer warriors" within my church that will commit to pray for my need.</b></p><p><b>When my church partakes of the Lord's Supper / Communion, I want my pastor to make it "clear" why it is for believers, and <i>not</i> for "unbelievers."</b></p><p><b>I want my church to be a place where you walk in, and you can "feel" the power of the Holy Spirit!</b></p><p><b>My church will have a heart and burden to train and equip the next generation to serve the Lord. </b></p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b> I know that I will never find "My" perfect church, but I think that I would be happy to find a church with even 3/4 of these traits. I am always looking ☺! If you have one, I would <i>love</i> to hear about it. Also, feel free to share anything you would add to this list.</b></p><p><b>***P.S. If I haven't made it clear, "My perfect" church will be made up of "imperfect" people. <i>However</i>, I believe that if my church has of many of the things in the outline above, it will </b><b>be fully prepared and equipped to evangelize, Biblically disciple, train, support, pray for, bless, and minister to the "imperfect" people within it (including me), and empower "them" to minister to those outside the church.</b></p><p><b><br /></b></p><p><b>Related: <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/find-good-church/">How do I find a good church?</a></b></p>Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-79852756516874787022020-09-14T17:16:00.000-04:002020-09-14T17:16:49.893-04:00"Good" Sermon vs "Powerful" Sermon<p> <b>I listened to two sermons today. Let me begin with the "second sermon." I was told that the second sermon was "good," so I decided to listen to it. It was on Facebook, and comments went even farther than "good," saying it was "great," "amazing," and even "awesome." I listened, and to be honest, I didn't really think it was any of those. I would label it, "okay" at best.</b></p><p><b> Nevertheless, I have listened to many "good," and even "great" sermons in my life. The tables beside my study chair are filled with notes taken from these sermons. I am thankful for these "good" and "great" sermons, and they are important. They are Bible based, teaching sermons which are usually </b><b>expository (the best in my opinion), taking the Bible verse by verse and breaking it down, or topical, sharing what the Bible says on certain topics. We NEED these kinds of sermons. But....</b></p><p> <b>Let's move to the "first sermon." I listened to this sermon simply because I usually listen to this pastor's sermons. After hearing it, I thought, "That was <i>powerful</i>!" After the second sermon, I began thinking about what the difference was between the two sermons. What made the first one so "powerful," and the second one "okay?" In fact, why do I end up labeling <i>any</i> sermon as "powerful," while labeling others as "good," "okay," or even "bad?"</b></p><p><b> Two common characteristics are <i>always</i> connected with a "powerful" sermon: #1. It is filled with Holy Spirit power. You can sense it. You can feel it. It is undeniable. #2. It is grounded in Scripture. In addition to this, are one or more of the following characteristics:</b></p><p><b>People all over the room are weeping.</b></p><p><b>People all over the room are on their faces.</b></p><p><b>Unsaved people flood to the altar crying out to be saved.</b></p><p><b>Saved people flood to the altar crying out in repentance for living lives not in line with the Bible.</b></p><p><b>Addictions and bondages are broken.</b></p><p><b>The sermon creates a renewed hunger for God's Word.</b></p><p><b>The sermon creates a renewed passion for worshipping God.</b></p><p><b>The sermon creates a renewed fire to go out and change the word for Christ.</b></p><p><b> After hearing sermons like these, if they are online, I immediately start thinking, "Who can I share this with?" "Who needs to hear it?" "Whose life can it change?"</b></p><p><b> Many "good" and "great" sermons have come and gone, and I have mostly forgotten what was said during them (although they live on in my notes, and I have used bits and pieces in my studies). And, the "okay" and "bad" sermons I generally forget before the day's end (in fact, sometimes I even forget what was said before the sermon is done). Honestly, </b><b>I have had my fill of these Scripture light, sin light, judgment light, love heavy, self-help, feel good, "powerless" sermons.</b></p><p><b> On the other hand, I can still remember huge chunks of the "powerful" sermons, even years later. Some have changed my life. In fact, I was saved in October of 1994 at a Billy Graham Crusade after hearing a man share one of these (it wasn't Billy Graham).</b></p><p><b> While not technically a "sermon," this is also why I love to listen to people who share "powerful" testimonies from the pulpit of how they were saved. I actually heard one of these last week from a young man who came to America as a Muslim apologist, and eventually became a Christian. I have no doubt that at the end, dozens of people were saved when he led them in a salvation prayer.</b></p><p><b> As I said above, we <i>need</i> "good" and "great" sermons (amidst the millions of "bad" sermons), but as this world becomes increasingly godless, </b><b>evil, and crazy, I find myself yearning more and more for Holy Spirit filled, life changing, "<i>powerful</i>" sermons, where the power of God is magnified and on display. I don't think I am alone in this.</b></p>Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-31596518332135248682020-03-21T16:25:00.001-04:002020-03-21T16:43:39.783-04:00Thankfulness During The Coronavirus <b>As I write this on 3-20-20, we are in the midst of a worldwide pandemic called the Coronavirus. During this virus outbreak, I have seen both the best and worst in people. As Christians, this can be our time to rise up and shine, and I have seen some great examples of individual Christians, and churches doing this very thing.</b><br />
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<b> I am "thankful" for these Christians who are making a difference right now, and this is what I want to focus on here: "thankfulness." In particular, I want to focus on the "thankfulness" that we should have as Christians. It is not always easy to be "thankful" in the midst of our trials, but the Bible tells us that we should be. In fact, the Bible tells us to "rejoice" in them (James 1:2-4)(Rom 5:3-4)(Jn 16:33). </b><br />
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<b> Obviously, finding things to be "thankful" for when the world we know is crashing down around us can be tough, but even when things are at their worst, there are ALWAYS things to be "thankful" for if we look for them. Somewhere on this planet there is "one" person who has the most difficult life of anyone. The odds are very good that you aren't that one person. Therefore, it is safe to say that someone, somewhere has it worse than you do. Frankly, I suspect that <i>many</i> people have it worse than you. (The fact that you have a PC/phone/tablet to read this puts you ahead of much of the world.)</b><br />
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<b> What do you have to be "thankful" for? While this may vary from person to person, let me give you some ideas:</b><br />
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<b>That you have salvation in Jesus Christ.</b><br />
<b>That you can go to the Lord in prayer at any time.</b><br />
<b>That you have the ability to worship the Lord without restrictions.</b><br />
<b>That you aren't dying from a lack of food.</b><br />
<b>That you have clean water to drink.</b><br />
<b>That you have a roof over your head.</b><br />
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<b> I often urge Christians to take some time once in a while to go to the Lord with "only" a prayer of "thankfulness." Don't ask for anything, but simply "thank" Him for everything that you can think of. When you focus on all of the things you have to be "thankful" to the Lord for, this can be a source of great peace.</b><br />
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<b> In the midst of this Coronavirus outbreak, I have found some new things to be "thankful" for. Here are a few: </b><br />
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<b> I am "thankful" for people who have been picking up and delivering food and products to those who are unable to get out. </b><br />
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<b> I am "thankful" that God continues to provide for my wife and I during this time, even with a loss of income.</b><br />
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<b> I have found renewed "thankfulness" to God for calling me, and giving me the ability to </b><b>minister to others (especially during this time of "social distancing") through my website (<a href="https://jesusalive.cc/">JesusAlive.cc</a></b><b>) and this blog. </b><br />
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<b> I am thankful for being an "introvert!" When you work in ministry, as you might imagine, being an introvert can have some definite disadvantages. At times, this gets me down. Right now, I truly believe that God has </b><b>equipped me for such a time as this. </b><b>While nearly everyone is going <i>"crazy" </i>right now being shut in, this time of isolation has had little effect on me. Most of my days are spent studying the Bible, writing Bible studies, and answering Bible questions on the site to help people. Right now, I have an opportunity to do this even more, and I am trying to take advantage of it.</b><br />
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<b> To my "brothers and sisters" in Christ who gather with me on a weekly basis to study the Bible, I miss you. This separation reminds me of how thankful I need to be for the love, prayers, support, and faithfulness you have given to me.</b><br />
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<b> The other day, </b><b>I began trying to picture what my life would be like right now in the midst of this chaos if I didn't have the </b><b>"peace that passeth all understanding" (Phil 4:7) that I received when I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior. As I pondered this, I have found "thankfulness."</b><br />
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<b> Finding thankfulness is something that God has been working on in my life over the years. Over time, I am getting better at it.</b><b> Perhaps, like me, God is trying to show you some new things to be "thankful" for right now during this trial. Look for Him and His blessings in your circumstances, and give Him thanks.</b><br />
<b><br /></b><b> Friend, in Christ, God has a "perfect" plan for your life. Nothing that is going on in your life, or in the world right now is a surprise to God. God is in <i>total </i>control. (1 Th 5:18) "In every thing give thanks: for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you."</b><br />
<br />Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-54302413223158564792019-10-29T10:50:00.003-04:002021-10-03T10:39:55.096-04:00My Thorn In The Flesh? <b>For years, since I have become a Christian, I have prayed for God to "crush all pride" in me, to keep me humble. The Bible has a lot to say about "pride." God hates it (Prov 6:16-17). It is sin (Prov 21:4). Pride goes before destruction (Prov 16:18). I list more verses on "pride" <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/is-pride-sin/">here</a>. </b><b>Since God is so averse to pride, I do not want to be proud. </b><div>
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<b> In relation to this, it is also interesting to look at what the Bible says about Paul's "thorn in the flesh" in (2 Cor 12:7-10). In short, in the preceding verses (2 Cor 12:1-6), we see that Paul had been taken up into Heaven, and "heard inexpressible words, which a man is not permitted to speak." As a result of this experience, Paul was given a "thorn in the flesh" to keep him from being proud of the "revelations" he had been given by God. While we do not know for sure what this "thorn" was (I believe it was an <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/pauls-thorn-in-flesh">affliction of his eyes</a>), we do know that it was debilitating to Paul.</b></div>
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<b> Are some people today being given a "thorn in the flesh" from God (or Satan depending on your point of view) to keep them from being proud? Have I been given a "thorn in the flesh" to keep ME from being proud? I don't know for sure, but I have been thinking about this for a while now. Let me explain.</b></div>
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<b> Most who read this probably already know that I run a Christian website: <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/">JesusAlive.cc</a>. Many of you may have come to this blog from the site. I have answered hundreds of Bible questions, and written Bible studies for the site since August of 2002. If you spend any time on the website, you will probably leave with the impression, "Steve knows the Bible really well." I have spent thousands of hours in God's Word to write what I write. I "seem" to be a Bible scholar. </b><b>However, there is a problem: I CAN'T REMEMBER WHAT I WRITE! </b></div>
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<b> Frankly, this isn't the only problem either. I have a "scrambled up brain," and honestly, I am beginning to think that God is behind it. That it is my "thorn in the flesh." Let me explain.</b></div>
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<b> I have a learning disability. This has been a problem for my whole life. I barely got through school because of it. In some areas of my brain, I might be considered brilliant. For example, I know more odd bits of trivia than almost anyone I know. Most people refuse to play me in Words With Friends (a game like Scrabble) after a few games because I don't lose much. I have a gift for remembering people's names and faces for years (I see people years later, and call them by name and they have no idea who I am.). Cool, right?</b></div>
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<b> But, then it comes to the other part of my brain. This part literally "embarrasses" me on a regular basis. For one, I have a HUGE problem talking. I stumble over words. I make no sense sometimes. I often cannot convey what I want to say. If I get too flustered, my brain basically just "shuts off" - literally! (In moments like these, I have forgotten things like the name of the street I live on, or the name of a person I see on a regular basis.) Honestly, if this was not a problem, I would almost certainly be a pastor today. However, with my brain the way it is, I could never stand in front of a church congregation and preach. It is a constant problem even trying to teach my Bible studies. People have left because of it. </b></div>
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<b> In addition to this is the "not remembering" problem I mentioned above. It happened again this week at Bible study. We came to a section on "crowns." We had discussed "crowns" a few weeks earlier, so I asked the class what they remembered about our discussion. I had followed up that earlier discussion by writing a specific study on "crowns," and I mentioned that. A lady who had joined us for the first time asked me what I had learned in my study. I had almost <i>completely </i>forgotten what I had just written on. I fumbled and stumbled over a few bits I did remember, then I had to jump to my phone and go to the website to pull up what I had written. This happens <i>constantly</i>! WHY??? How can I have such an amazing ability to remember odd bits of trivia, and names and faces, but yet I can't remember something I just finished studying??</b></div>
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<b> I may be <i>way </i>off here, but could God be using this to "crush my pride?" To keep me humble? If I had the ability to remember <i>everything</i> I have written on, like I can remember trivia, names, and faces, or if I could talk as well as I seem able to write, perhaps I would be prideful, "puffed up" in my knowledge and ability to speak. Not being able to remember, and not being able to talk well "crushes" me. It also keeps me from thinking too highly of myself. I <i>hate</i> it at times </b><b>(like this week). It can also be depressing. </b></div>
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<b>"Three times I (Paul) pleaded with the Lord to take it (the thorn) away from me. (9) But He said to me, My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me. (10) That is why, for Christ's sake, I delight in my weaknesses, in insults, in hardships, in persecutions, in difficulties. For when I am weak, then I am strong."</b></div>
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<b> Paul did not want his "thorn." If this is my "thorn," I don't want it either. However, if Christ's grace will carry me through, if Christ's power will be made perfect in my weakness, then I must be "glad" and "delight" in my weaknesses. I am not quite there on this..., but I am working on it. For those of you who have persevered with me as I deal with this, thank you! For those of you who have separated from me because of it, I am sorry!</b></div>
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<b>P.S. I also have another "brain thing" that I have never known ANYONE to have. I will forget a person's name, or the name of a place or thing, but I will remember how many "letters" the person, place, or thing has in it. This happens <i>constantly. </i>It happened last night. My wife asked me the last name of a person we used to go to church with years ago. I couldn't remember, but I said, "I think it has like 8 letters and it may start with an "M." My wife said, "McGinnis." Yup, that's it! If my wife hadn't gotten it, it eventually would have come to me. It almost always does. Crazy, right? I only mention this because if anyone reading this knows another person like this PLEASE let me know! There <i>must </i>be someone else like me out there!</b><br />
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<b>Update: Oddly enough, before I had a chance to post this, I ended up going to a local restaurant with my wife and a group friends last night to play a trivia game. Everyone has a little computer box and it asks you a question, then you answer. The faster you answer with the right answer, the more points you get. So, the guy (me) who is supposed to know a lot of trivia, and usually wins, lost to almost everyone in the first game. I thought about this blog. Then we played a second game. I was leading everyone with 5 questions left, on my way to victory. Then, for some reason, I was given "0" points 4 times in a row on answers I had right, and I lost! How did that happen?? I have played trivia at this restaurant probably around 50 times and have <i>never </i>had that happen before. Honestly, I think I know how it happened. Lesson: I need even more "pride-crushing."</b><br />
<b>(Also, I mentioned in conversation that a car repair place we use is on "Mason Ave." when it is on "Ridgewood Ave." because there is a business called "Mason's" near our car repair shop. Mason Ave. is on the other side of town...)</b><br />
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Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-34163370448671994782019-10-27T16:02:00.003-04:002021-10-03T10:46:13.630-04:00"Outraged!" - The John MacArthur & Beth Moore Controversy <b>Let me begin by posting this study I wrote: "<a href="https://jesusalive.cc/woman-pastor-elder">Should a woman be a pastor/elder?</a>" </b><b>At this link is a study I wrote on why I believe from a Biblical standpoint that a woman should not be a pastor or elder. You may or may not agree with my position on this, but I am not going to argue this here. I simply post the link to show my position on this issue.</b><br />
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<b> The issue I DO want to address here is the recent comments John MacArthur made at a conference concerning Beth Moore. If you don't know who these two are, (in short) John MacArthur is a well-known pastor from Grace Community Church in California. Beth Moore is a well-known Bible teacher from Houston, Texas who founded Living Proof Ministries. </b><br />
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<b> John MacArthur was asked by the moderator of the conference to give a one-word response to a word he said. That "word" (two words) was "Beth Moore." MacArthur's response was "Go home." He followed that with the sentence: "There is no case that can be made Biblically for a woman preaching: period, paragraph, end of discussion."</b><br />
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<b> As you can imagine, the "outrage" that followed has been enormous. Frankly, I believe that MacArthur's "two words" were foolish, condescending, and rude. I can certainly understand the criticism he has received from that, and he deserves it. Personally, I think it would have been way more appropriate for MacArthur to simply say: "I disagree" in response to Beth Moore.</b><br />
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<b> Since this has happened, it has been all over the internet and social media. Dozens of blogs have been written about it. I have spent a <i>lot</i> of time looking at how people have reacted to this. Interestingly, while there is a fair amount of "outrage" over MacArthur's comment for Moore to "go home," the <i>far </i>greater "outrage" has been over his view that a woman should not be preaching. </b><br />
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<b> This has been a controversial subject for a while now. If you took the time to read my link above, you will see I "<i>somewhat</i>" agree with MacArthur on this view. I would not say that "no case can be made Biblically for a woman preaching," but I would say that I believe it isn't a real strong case. But again, that is not where I want to go here. What I want to discuss is the "<i>outrage</i>."</b><br />
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<b> Predictably, much of this "outrage" is coming from women. They have accused MacArthur (and those who think like him) of destroying the lives of women and little girls. Here is a list of "some" of the things that he has been called in the comments I have read for his view on this subject: a misogynist (hater of women), ignorant, prideful, self-righteous, egotistical, arrogant, a pseudo-Christian, a relic, evil, corrupt, a Pharisee, a false prophet, an abuser, and a troll.</b><br />
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<b>***Note: Just because someone believes a woman should not be a minister does not mean they are a misogynist any more than someone who believes homosexuality is wrong is homophobic, or someone who believes Islam is wrong is Islamophobic. (Yes, there are <i>some</i> exceptions.) </b><b>Because one disagrees with a person's views does not mean that person "hates" them.</b><br />
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<b> So, in short, because they believe John MacArthur has attacked women, they have decided to attack him back (by attacking his character). How is this attack on MacArthur any better than his (perceived) attack on women? Is this not the definition of a hypocrite?</b><br />
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<b> Because we disagree with someone does not mean that we need to personally "attack" them. Honestly, I have several disagreements with John MacArthur over his theology, <i>especially </i>some of his teachings on "reformed theology." I have BIG problems with aspects of reformed theology, which I think are cold and destructive. Because he teaches and practices them, am I "outraged?" No. Because he teaches and practices them, do I hate him? No. Because he teaches and practices them, do I personally attack him? No. Do I tell him to "go home?" because I believe he is wrong? No. My "two words" to him are "I disagree." And, I will show from the Bible why I disagree.</b><br />
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<b> I also do not agree with Beth Moore on some issues, and I have the same "two words" for her: "I disagree."</b><br />
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<b> Everyone seems to be "outraged" these days. Among non-Christians there is "outrage" against anyone who disagrees with the LGBTQ movement, or who is against abortion. This is to be expected. However, we also have "outrage" within the Christian community. There is "outrage" over a Christian who supports our President (or who doesn't). There is "outrage" in the church over what kind of music should be played, what spiritual gifts should be practiced (i.e. tongues), what version of the Bible should be used, what "end times" view is held, etc.... And, there is "outrage" over our subject of "women in ministry."</b><br />
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<b> Working in ministry, I have people who are "outraged" with me constantly. It is a part of the life. Usually, people are "outraged" with me over my teaching on a certain topic. Sometimes, they are "outraged" over my strong views on living a "conservative" life (believing I am a "<a href="https://jesusalive.cc/what-is-legalism">legalist</a>"). Sometimes they are "outraged" if I disagree with a choice they have made. Some people who have known me personally have been "outraged" because they believe I should have made more money to "<a href="https://jesusalive.cc/cant-support-family-sin">provide for</a>" my family. A few years ago, a guy saw me for the first time at Bible study and said he had to go outside and "throw up." </b><b>Some people are going to be "outraged" over this blog post.</b><br />
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<b> May I offer my solution to all of this?</b><br />
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<b> I feel very confident that God has called me to ministry. I believe He has called me to do <i>exactly</i> what I am doing. Your "outrage" is not going stop me from fulfilling this call. You can refuse to financially support my ministry, and you can refuse to go to the <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/">JesusAlive</a> website if you disagree with me. You can leave my Bible studies if you don't like what I teach. Will that stop me from continuing with my ministry? No! God called me, and with God's help and guidance, I am going to pursue that call with all that I have. Nothing you say will stop me!</b><br />
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<b> Turning to Beth Moore, she believes God has called her to ministry. She believes that she is doing <i>exactly</i> what God has called her to do. Is she right? I don't know for sure, and honestly, that really isn't for me to decide. But, I do know this: if a woman, feels SURE that God has called her to do something, then she needs to obey God! Whether John MacArthur disagrees with you, or anyone else disagrees with you, you are accountable to GOD, not to man! John MacArthur is also accountable to God.</b><br />
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<b> People need to <i>stop</i> being "outraged" and attacking those who disagree with them. Your "outrage" is not going to stop Beth Moore, and it is not going to stop women who work in ministry or who are pastors. They are going to pursue the call God they believe God has placed upon their lives. In addition, your "outrage" is not going to stop those who believe women should not be pastors or be in ministry either. In the end, your "outrage" is almost certainly going to hurt <i>you </i>the most. (Yes, it does hurt those you inflict it on some too.) </b><br />
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<b> Instead, regarding this issue, i</b><b>f you don't believe that a woman should be a pastor or elder, then don't go to their church. This is one reason why we have different churches. If you don't believe a woman should be in ministry at all, then don't support their ministry.</b><br />
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<b> If you believe that a woman "should" be a pastor or elder, and should be in ministry then support them. Join their churches, give financially to their churches and ministries, pray for them, and encourage them.</b><br />
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<b> Let me close with this warning! For those who believe women should not be pastors or be in ministry, you better REALIZE THIS: women in ministry are still your sisters in Christ. God holds you accountable for how you treat them. On the other hand, those who disagree with women being in ministry are your brothers, and sometimes sisters, in Christ. God holds you accountable for how you treat them as well.</b><br />
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<b> Hey "JMac," might you have something to say to Beth Moore too?</b>Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-2869009963149820192019-06-03T17:11:00.000-04:002019-06-03T17:56:34.101-04:00We Are Family! <b>I heard a sermon today on (Mt 12:46-50). These verses say, "While He was still speaking to the crowds, behold, His mother and brothers were standing outside, seeking to speak to Him. (47) Someone said to Him, "Behold, Your mother and Your brothers are standing outside seeking to speak to You." (48) But Jesus answered the one who was telling Him and said, "Who is My mother and who are my brothers?" (49) And stretching out His hand toward His disciples, He said, "Behold My mother and My brothers! (50) For whoever does the will of My Father who is in heaven, he is My brother and sister, and mother." (Also see: Mk 3:31-35, Lk 8:19-21) </b><br />
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<b> The pastor then went on to explain these verses. There are several interpretations of these verses, and I am not going to get into that in depth here, but one thing that I personally see in these verses is Jesus saying that if God the Father is our Father, then we are the family of Jesus. He loves those who share the same Father as Him just as much He loved His own flesh and blood family.</b><br />
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<b> Think about these two paragraphs above. If Jesus loved His "spiritual family" just as much as His own flesh and blood family, then shouldn't <i>we</i> do this also? And, if one day we will equally love all believers who are in Heaven with us, then shouldn't we consider doing this now? What if we did? What if we loved, and treated <i>all</i> fellow Christians just like our own families? What if we made them <i>FAMILY? </i>What would the body of Christ look like?</b><br />
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<b> This being said, I believe one more thing should be added. If we want a piece of Heaven on earth in our relationships, then we need to consider what we will be doing with our "family" in Heaven. I don't know everything we will be doing, but I do know this: <i>everything </i>will be God-focused. We will worship Him. </b><b>We will long to spend time with Him. We will desire to know Him better and more deeply. Therefore, it seems clear to me that the interactions with our "family" in Christ right now on earth should share the same desire, right? In other words, our chief desire when we interact with our "family" (fellow believers) should be to worship, glorify, and grow deeper in the Lord.</b><br />
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<b> Honestly, I believe almost every Christian is missing everything I have said to this point. However, I also believe most are longing for it. They know something is missing, but they don't know what it is. Many jump from church to church looking for it (I know many personally). They seek "friendships" or "community." </b><b>Sometimes they find it in dinners, youth groups, singles groups, senior events, social get-together's, fun days, etc, at their church, but</b><b> the emptiness still seems to remain. Why? Because what they <i>really </i>need is a taste of Heaven. </b><b>A "<i>family</i>" in Christ that loves them just like their own flesh and blood family. </b><b>A "<i>family</i>" that isn't centered on "fun," but on God. (Seriously, you can focus on God, and <i>still</i> have fun!)</b><br />
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<b> I know they are looking for this, and it breaks my heart. But, how do I convince so many that this is what they need, and are longing for? Have you ever had that moment when you just <i>know</i> what a person just needs, and if they will listen to you, their life would be so much better? Of course, many times we experience this when we are born again, and begin a new life with Christ. We want <i>all</i> of those who are unsaved to know what they are missing, but we usually can't get them to understand. The same is true for this. </b><br />
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<b> Over the years, I have experienced the life changing power of having a "family" in Christ. </b><b>We have shared our lives with each other, prayed for each other, and laughed and cried together. But, most importantly, we have spent time pushing one another to become more and more like Jesus (Eph 4:13,15)(Phil 3:12-14)(2 Cor 3:17-18)(Rom 8:29), and growing together in our relationship with God by studying His Word. God is at the center of what we do together. It has been life-changing, and I am so thankful for my "family" in Christ. I love them.</b><br />
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<b> At this time in my life, God has blessed me with two "families" (groups) that I lead where we do just what I describe in the previous paragraph. I <i>long </i>for people to join us. I want to grow the family. However, I have had little success. </b><b>In my own church, I have reached out to what I estimate to be over 200 people. I introduce myself, and spend a little time getting to know them. Then, I share with them what our group does, and invite them them join us so we can get to know them better, pray for them, and study God's Word with them. Over the years, of all the people I have invited, less than 10% have accepted... (Thankfully, others have come on their own.)</b><br />
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<b> Friends, </b><b>I realize that things in Heaven will be a little different than they are on earth right now, and that while we live on this planet, we do have a responsibility to take care of our biological family, but there is a bigger "family" out there that needs you, and you need them. That is your "family in Christ." I pray that you will come to see this, that you will see them as "family" (just like Jesus does), that you will love them like "family," and that you will grow your "family" on earth as it is in Heaven.</b><br />
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Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-80804919877031125002019-05-18T12:46:00.000-04:002019-05-18T13:32:25.322-04:00A Mind Controlled By Satan<b> When does life begin? More specifically, when does a "human" life begin? The Bible clearly tells us that life begins at the moment of conception. It says that God knew us before we were even conceived, and He fashioned us in the womb (Ps 139:13-16)(Jer 1:5)(Isa 44:24)(Isa 49:1). In fact, the KJV Bible does not even use the term "pregnant," but rather, it uses the term "with child" (2 Sam 11:5)(1 Sam 4:19)(2 Kin 15:16)(Mt 1:23 / tie to Mt 1:20)(Mt 24:19)(Mk 13:17). At conception, a woman is with child.</b><br />
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<b> But, I ask the above question because there are many who deny this truth. They do not believe that life begins at conception. But again, if it isn't "at conception," when is it? I ask this because the state of Georgia just passed legislation which makes abortion illegal after 6 weeks, when a fetal heartbeat can generally be detected. (They are actually the 4th state to do this, with Ky, Ms, and Ohio having previously done so.) The "furor" that has followed this decision is astounding, and it is why I write this blog today. </b><br />
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<b> This is a picture of a fetus at 6 weeks old. </b><br />
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<b><br /></b><b> This fetus (infant), with a beating heart, is what the "pro-choice" movement is fighting for the right to terminate, under the guise of "a woman's right to control her own body." A fetus like this, with a beating heart IS life! I don't think any rational person can deny this.</b><br />
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<b> This is where the title of the blog comes in. For a woman (or man) to say that a woman should have the right to silence this heartbeat if she so chooses is simply "demonic." It is "a mind controlled by Satan." No Christian, no one with the mind of Christ, could advocate for a woman's right to take this life. This is the realm of Satan. It is his specialty. </b><b>The Bible calls him the "god of this world" (2 Cor 2:2), "prince of this world" (Jn 12:31)(Jn 14:30)(Jn 16:11), and "prince of the power of the air" (Eph 2:2). He "blinds the minds of people" (2 Cor 4:4). </b><b>He is "a liar, and the father of lies" (Jn 8:44). He is a "deceiver" (Rev 12:9)(Rev 20:7-8,10).</b><br />
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<b> Look at some of the responses from those in Hollywood when this legislation was passed: </b><br />
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<b>A well-known Hollywood actress called for all pro-choice women to refrain from having sex </b><b>(because "we just cannot risk pregnancy," and therefore may need an abortion) </b><b>until this legislation is overturned. </b><br />
<b>(Note: Christians actually support this stance, as we have been advocating for "abstinence" all along, thereby greatly reducing the number of unplanned pregnancies and abortions performed!)</b><br />
<b><br /></b><b>A well-known model just posted a naked picture of herself on Instagram in protest. (How does she even think this will help??)</b><br />
<b><br /></b><b>Several well-known Hollywood directors are offering the proceeds from movies they are making (in Georgia) to fight the new legislation.</b><br />
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<b> While not directly connected to this legislation, a few weeks ago, a pro-choice Pennsylvania state representative, in two separate incidents, shot video of himself bullying 3 teenage girls, as well as an elderly woman who were quietly praying in front of the clinic of an abortion provider. (He offered $100 to someone who would dox the 3 girls...)</b><br />
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<b> In response to this, a counter, pro-life rally was held at the same spot where this Pennsylvania representative harassed these people. A well known blogger named Matt Walsh was one of the speakers at this rally. Afterwards, he posted this on his Twitter page: "Over the last 24 hours pro-abortion people have threatened to kill me, </b><b>kill my family, rape my wife, rape my daughter, and assault me. They've wished death on me, on my children, on all pro lifers. They've wished rape on my wife and my daughter." (He has posted a number of these threats as he has received them. It is chilling!)</b><br />
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<b> This is all simply "insanity." It is irrational hatred. It is from "a mind controlled by Satan." And, in some cases, it is even "demon possession." It is happening all over this country on a daily basis, and it isn't going to end. In fact, it is only going to get worse. The Bible tells us this will happen in the end times:</b><br />
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<b>People will be: lovers of themselves, covetous, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, lack self control, fierce, despisers of those that are good, traitors, reckless, lovers of pleasure more than lovers of God, have a form of godliness, but denying its power (2 Tim 3:2-5).</b><br />
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<b> However, this does not mean that we are to stop fighting for the unborn. God hates the shedding of innocent blood, and calls us to defend the weak and helpless: (Prov 6:16-17)(Prov 31:8-9)(Ps 82:2-4)(Ex 23:7). Nothing is more innocent and weak and helpless than an unborn infant. Through the power of God, abortion may one day be greatly curtailed, but one way or the other, it will continue. Just as Prohibition could not stop the flow of alcohol, making abortion illegal will not stop abortions. </b><b>In addition, the persecution of those who stand up for the rights of the unborn, and for God's standards in the Bible will only increase. However, we must press forward.</b><br />
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<b> The Christian life is to be one of sacrifice. The Bible tells us to we are to die what our "flesh" wants (Gal 5:24)(Col 3:5)(Eph 4:22).</b><b> In addition, the Bible says in (Jn 15:13) "Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends."</b><b>Jesus did this very thing (Jn 10:11)(1 Jn 3:16), laying down His life so that those who place their trust in Him could have eternal life. However, this Bible verse doesn't simply mean to "die" for someone else, but also to put the interests of others ahead of our own. Ladies, if you are fighting for "your rights" over the rights of your unborn child, you are fighting the wrong fight. "Lay down your life" for the life of your unborn child. This is God's way.</b><br />
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<b>P.S. Let us be in prayer for </b><b>our President, Vice-President, and those in Congress who are standing on the side of the pro-life movement; for strength, guidance, and protection. Let us pray for those in the Supreme Court, who most likely will rule on this issue, that they will stand on the side of defending the unborn. Let us pray for those who were bold enough to pass this legislation, and for leaders in other states to stand up for the unborn. </b><b>Since this legislation in Georgia passed, two more states have now joined the pro-life legislation movement, with Missouri banning abortions after 8 weeks, and Alabama enacting the strongest the strongest legislation ever, banning virtually ALL abortions, at any time, with criminal penalties for those who perform abortions. Praise God!</b><br />
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<b> Of course, let us also be in prayer for those whose minds are being controlled by Satan, that they may be set free through the power of Jesus Christ.</b><br />
<br />Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-59706016367738956232019-03-19T16:17:00.003-04:002021-10-03T10:19:04.893-04:0040 Things God Has Taught Me<b> Yesterday, a friend wrote on her <a href="https://kblmsengel.blogspot.com/">blog</a> "50 things I've learned in 50 years." It inspired me, and I asked permission (which she graciously granted) to write something similar, sharing what I have learned in 57 years of life. I feverishly began writing down thing after thing. Then, I started to notice a pattern; basically <i>everything</i> of importance in my life has been taught by God, and it hasn't been over 57 years, but over 24 years (since the day I was born again on Oct 27, 1994). While my life didn't "literally" begin on that day in October, it feels like it did. I was reborn, and began a "new" life. It was the day where God began His work to change me day by day to become more like Jesus (technically called "<a href="https://jesusalive.cc/sanctification-meaning">sanctification</a>").</b><br />
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Over those 24 years, God has taught me <i>many </i>lessons. These lessons have changed my life. Perhaps they can help you too. In looking at my <i>giant </i>list, I have decided to whittle it down to what I have called "40 Things God Has Taught Me." Has God "directly" taught me each of these "lessons?" I am not sure I can say that, but if not, I <i>can</i> say that they are the result of God's work in me. So, in no particular order, here is my list.</b><br />
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1. "Put Me (God) first in ALL that you do, and I will take care of you." (God spoke this to me at one of the lowest points of my life.)</b><br />
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2. "But by the grace of God I am what I am..." (1 Cor 15:10)(My favorite Bible verse.)</b><br />
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3. Work to leave a Godly legacy behind for generations that will follow you. (This was one of the main reasons I started <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/">JesusAlive.cc</a>.)</b><br />
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4. God first, spouse second, children third (in that order).</b><br />
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5. Have a few close, trusted friends you can share <i>everything</i> about your life with. (<a href="https://jesusalive.cc/what-is-biblical-accountability">Be accountable</a>)</b><br />
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6. Good Quote: "If you were put on trial for your faith in Jesus, would there be enough evidence to convict you?" </b><br />
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7. Arm yourself with a group of prayer warriors that you know will pray when you need them.</b><br />
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8. Even if no one else sees the good you are doing, God always sees it.</b><br />
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9. Commit your children to the Lord at conception (See: 1 Sam Ch. 1).</b><br />
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10. Pray for your children's future spouses as they are growing up.</b><br />
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11. No one likes to be around a complainer. God doesn't like it either (Phil 2:14)(2 Tim 2:16)(1 Cor 10:10). (More verses <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/complaining-in-bible">here</a>.)</b><br />
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12. <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/pray-without-ceasing">"Pray without ceasing"</a> (1 Th 5:17). (This means that we should live in a continual state of prayer in our everyday lives. We should be praying all through the day. If you know how many times you have prayed in a day, you probably haven't done it.)</b><br />
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13. Don't compare yourself to others. God made you the way you are, with your own gifts.</b><br />
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14. Choose humility. Pray for God to crush a prideful attitude. God hates pride (Mt 23:12)(Prov 6:16-19)(Prov 16:18). (More verses <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/is-pride-sin">here</a>.)</b><br />
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15. Whatever you do, do it with excellence ("to the glory of God" - 1 Cor 10:31).</b><br />
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16. "You can destroy years of relationship or ministry with just one act of rebellion" (1).</b><br />
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17. You cannot change people. Leave that to God in prayer.</b><br />
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18. Do not place yourself in a situation where you will be tempted to sin. Flee temptation.</b><br />
<b><br />19. Write out your <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/my-testimony">personal testimony</a> of how you came to Christ, and share it. It can change lives.</b><br />
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20. Remember, that as Christians, an unbelieving world is watching <i>everything </i>you say and do.</b><br />
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21. The music you listen to, the t.v. shows you watch, and the video games you play will affect the way you think. Choose wisely. (See: Job 31:1)</b><br />
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22. Eventually, almost every person you spend time with will hurt you. Forgive! God commands it (Mt 6:14-15)(Mt 18:20-21)(Col 3:12-13). (See: <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/forgiving-others">Forgiving Others</a>)</b><br />
<b>Quote: "A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers" (2).</b><br />
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23. Keep a journal of great things God has done in your life. Look at it when times are tough.</b><br />
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24. Keep a journal of encouraging things that people have said about you. Look at it when you are discouraged.</b><br />
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25. Set a goal so high that it can only be accomplished if God steps in.</b><br />
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<b>26. "A man of God in the will of God is immortal until His work is done" (1). Remember this if you are fearful when doing God's work.</b><br />
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<b>27. Have integrity. If you say you are going to do something, do it.</b><br />
<b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">28. "Love your neighbor as yourself" (Yes, as "<i>yourself</i>") (Mt 19:19)(Mk 12:31.33)(Mt 22:39).</span></span></b><br />
<b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">29. "New level, new devil" (3). If you make a move to draw closer to the Lord, expect a Satanic spiritual war to stop it. Press through!</span></span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">30. "And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose" (Rom 8:28). </span></span><span style="background-color: white; font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif; font-size: 16px;">Everything that happens to us as Christians has a purpose. God either causes or allows <i>all</i> things. He is totally in control. He will, in some way, work things out for our good.</span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">31. Ask questions. (Check out how many questions Jesus asked in the Gospels.)</span></span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">32. Lay up your treasures in Heaven, not on earth (Mt 6:19-20)(Mk 10:21)(Lk 12:33). Have an eternal mindset, not an earthly one.</span></span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">33. Keep short accounts with God. When you sin, confess it, and repent: immediately. Do not let unconfessed sin keep you from a close relationship with God. (After you confess and repent, let it go.)</span></span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">34. Guard your tongue (Prov 10:19)(Prov 15:4)(Prov 21:23)(Eph 4:29). Think before you speak. One insensitive "slip of the tongue" can cause lasting damage.</span></span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">35. The Bible is God's direct Word to man. Read it! Study it! Cherish it!</span></span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">36. Get connected to a good, Bible preaching local church. You need it, and they need you. Also, join a small group. It is the place to make deeper Christian relationships.</span></span></b><br />
<b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;"><br /></span></span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">37. Find a good Christian mentor if at all possible. It will change your life. (I discuss this in another <a href="http://godintheshower.blogspot.com/2018/09/everyone-needs-mentor.html">blog post</a>.)</span></span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">38. God has given each Christian at least one <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/spiritual-gifts-in-bible">spiritual gift</a> (usually several). Find yours, and use it to serve the Lord. You will rarely feel closer to God than when you are operating in your gift.</span></span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">39. Be happy where you are, on the way to where God is taking you.</span></span></b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"> </span>I am sure I have missed some important ones. You probably can think of some I have missed too. Share them if you wish. Perhaps, I will go to 50 in the future.</b><br />
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<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><b>(2) Ruth Graham</b></span><br />
<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><b>(3) First heard from Joyce Meyer</b></span><br />
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<b> I had only been a Christian for a short time. I was in the first church that I became a part of after being born again (<a href="https://jesusalive.cc/my-testimony">testimony here</a>). A lot of stuff was still new to me, after being set free from the rote traditions of the Lutheran church I grew up attending. One thing that they did in this new church was to "dedicate" babies and small children. </b><br />
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<b> Churches that do this do so because they believe "infant baptism" is a not a Biblical concept. (<a href="https://jesusalive.cc/infant-baptism-wrong">I agree.</a> The Bible shows that baptism should follow a decision for Christ, not precede it: i.e. Acts 2:38,41, Acts 8:12-13,36-38, Acts 16:14-15,30-34). However, some parents want to commit their child to the Lord, and to have others stand with them, and pray, as they raise the child. At the time, this a was pretty new thing to me.</b><b> </b></div>
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<b> So... a couple came forward with their son to make this commitment. The pastor asked "If anyone will commit to pray for this baby as he grows up, will you stand up?" Of course, everyone stood up, including me. A few more words were spoken, then we all sat down. Then, I started contemplating what I had just done. I had just <i>stood up in front of God</i>, and said "I will commit to pray for this boy AS HE GROWS UP." Not, "I will pray for this boy," which entails praying a time or two for him, but praying for him "AS HE GROWS UP!" I had committed to pray for this boy for years!</b></div>
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<b> I feel pretty confident that out of the 300 or so that stood up, I was the only one who thought of this. </b><b>For several reasons, we left this church a few years later. However, I kept on praying for this boy occasionally over the years.</b><br />
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<b> As coincidence(?) would have it, about 20 years later, the couple who brought that baby forward for dedication began to attend our new church. My wife encouraged me to tell them what I had been doing, so I decided to do it. When I did, they were astounded. It turns out that he is doing very well. He is a Christian, and one thing he has been doing is medical missions. Praise God! I don't know if my prayers over the years played any part in that or not, but that is the best outcome I could ask for.</b><br />
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<b> My point in writing this though is not about my prayers, or their outcome. My point is that we need to pay attention to the commitments (vows) we make to God through our words (or actions my case). Making a vow or commitment to God is a <i>BIG </i>thing. God does not take it lightly (Deut 23:21)(Eccl 5:4-7) (I discuss this <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/breaking-vow-oath-to-god">here</a>). What are some examples? </b><br />
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<b> Number one in my mind is our marriage vows. Many of us have made a vow before God to stay with our spouse "till death do us part." How many think of this before they divorce? People make vows to stop doing something (i.e. a habit), or to start doing something (i.e. read the Bible more). People make vows at salvation, baptism, when confirmed (as I did at one time), to stay a virgin until married, when they are in trouble and want God's help, and many more you can probably think of.</b><br />
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<b> The Bible tells us that it is best not to make vows at all (Mt 5:34-37)(James 5:12). But, if we do make one, God expects us to keep it. Failing to keep a vow is not an unforgivable sin, but failing to keep it can have consequences. Therefore, be VERY cautious about the words that you speak to God. You may be making a promise that you will be responsible to keep for years, or maybe even a lifetime.</b></div>
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<b>(P.S. This came to me while shaving before the shower. See: <a href="http://godintheshower.blogspot.com/2018/02/why-name.html">Why The Name?</a>)</b></div>
Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-1690456618296007952018-09-27T17:34:00.000-04:002018-09-27T17:34:46.048-04:00Seeing God When My Dad Died<div style="background-color: white; color: #1d2129; font-family: helvetica, arial, sans-serif; font-size: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px;">
<b> Today would have been my dad's 82nd birthday. He died just over 3 years ago on July 15, 2015. As I have been thinking about him today, I remember how thankful I was (and still am) to God for how He worked in the midst of that terribly difficult time. About a week after the funeral, I made a post to my personal social media account. At that time, I did not have this blog. Therefore, today I want to re-post what I said here. </b><br />
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<b> I want to re-post because this blog has many readers, especially </b><b>from my ministry <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/">website</a>, who never got to read what I posted more than 3 years ago. In addition, I have new friends who didn't get to read it either. Posting here will put it out there for many years to come. So, here it is.</b><br />
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<b> This post is to tell you that if you have given your life to Christ, God is ALWAYS there for you.</b><b>This is especially true in the midst of our trials. It may be difficult to see sometimes, but if you look <i>closely</i>, you can find Him. This is what I did in the midst of my trial with my dad dying, and I saw God. Here is what God did.</b><br />
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<b> In the months before dad died, 3 amazing things happened:</b><br />
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<b>1. After many years away, the year before my dad died, my brother and his family were able to move back to the city where my parents lived to help them. They were able to take care of many things for them over that year, including remodeling the house. It also gave my dad a chance to spend time with my brother, his wife, and his sons.</b><br />
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<b><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: inherit;">1. AMAZINGLY, my wife and I, and our youngest daughter had been up to visit my parents for the 4th of July from June 29-July 6. We had a GREAT week of fun with mom and dad. Just before heading to the airport to leave, I felt God very strongly prompting me to get a few good pictures of dad, so I did that.</span></b><br />
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<b><span class="text_exposed_show" style="display: inline; font-family: inherit;"> I am SO thankful for what God did in the midst of this, and honestly for all of 2015. It was one of the worst years of my life (I speak of this in my <a href="http://godintheshower.blogspot.com/2018/03/what-if.html">blog post</a> from 3-3-18.). God got me through it all, and I don't know how I would have gotten through without Him. Whatever trial or trials you are facing, He will get you through as well. Look for Him in the midst. Look for the blessings. He is there: ALWAYS!</span></b><br />
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Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-1116838487108854392018-09-13T14:09:00.001-04:002021-10-03T10:27:46.067-04:00Everyone Needs A Mentor <b>I first met Paul in the year 2000. I had been a Christian for about 6 years. He was the same age as my parents, and was an elder in the first church I became involved in after I became a Christian. (I didn't go to church for quite a while after I became a Christian because of my painful church past. More details in <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/my-testimony">my testimony</a>.) The first Sunday I attended this new church, I ran to the alter for prayer when the time came. As I remember, he was the one who prayed with me.</b><br />
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<b>About two months later, my wife and I decided to start attending a church "small group." I didn't really know anything about what a "small group" was, but it seemed like something I should check out. It turned out that Paul was the leader of the small group we started going to. </b><br />
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<b> There was something about Paul that drew me to him. He had a calming effect on me. He also seemed to take an interest in me. I was in the beginning of my walk with the Lord, and pretty immature, but I did have a fire for God. I wanted to grow, I wanted to learn. </b><b>I think he sensed something in me. </b><b>As time passed, Paul became my mentor.</b><br />
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<b> Our original small group eventually ended, but Paul invited those who wanted to keep going to meet at his house. We went, along with a few others. Paul continually kept encouraging me and pushing me closer to the Lord. He wanted to know about my life. He encouraged me to share my insights, and what I had been learning. (I had started my online </b><b>ministry <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/">JesusAlive.cc</a> around this time.) </b><b>He brought me to a place where I could pray out loud in front of the group (<i>very </i>difficult for me). </b><br />
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<b> I don't know why he did this, but Paul had a funny habit of keeping a prayer notebook. He would take prayer requests from everyone in the group, write them in the notebook, and then ask "who would like to pray for this?" When someone volunteered to pray, he would write their name next to the request in the notebook. No one ever really knew what was in that notebook, but it was kind of humorous.</b><br />
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<b> There is a book called "The Five Love Languages" by Dr. Gary Chapman. In short, it is a book that shows what makes you feel loved the most, and how to best show love towards others. (I highly recommend it.) My "love language" is "words of affirmation." (Other "love languages" are physical touch, acts of service, gifts, and quality time.) In other words, when people "affirm" me by saying kind words or encouraging things to me, it shows me love. Paul was great at doing this. </b><br />
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<b> For years, I have kept a notebook of encouraging words that people have spoken to me that I can look at when times get tough. Paul is in that book. On Jan 23, 2002 (yes, I also write dates), he said to me (paraphrasing), "You have a gift that very few people on this planet have, you have the gift of humility. It is so rare, and when you see it, you really recognize it, and it stands out, and you have it." Those words have meant more to me than perhaps any other words ever spoken to me. It is a continual prayer of mine that God would crush all pride in me, and that I would have a humble spirit. I am not at all sure I will <i>ever</i> be where I need to be in that, but those words from Paul encourage me to push on.</b><br />
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<b> As time went on, our church planted a new church in a neighboring city. Paul and his wife left to help them. We started at a new small group. It was also a great blessing, and many new friendships came out of it, but Paul wasn't there. I didn't see Paul much anymore. I would still reach out to him from time to time. I started a new job, he showed up and prayed for me. I sent him a message on Facebook asking him to pray, and shortly after the phone rang, and he prayed for me. But, we slowly drifted apart...</b><br />
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<b> In March of 2012, Paul died from cancer. Before he died, we had not spent quality time together in a long time. I truly regret that. I should have reached out more. I should have told him what he meant to me. Maybe it is odd, but as I write this 6 years after his passing, I find myself missing him more. I would love to tell him about how the ministry has grown, how God has opened doors for me, how God is using me and my family. I would love to share my studies in the Bible with Him. And, I would also like to tell him that I have no doubt I am where I am because of his prayers and encouragement.</b><br />
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<b> Christian friends, if you do not have a mentor, I encourage you to find one. Find someone older and wiser in age, and in Jesus, and ask them to take you under their wing. It can change your life!</b><br />
<br />Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-48781193979606911682018-08-27T13:42:00.001-04:002021-10-03T10:58:42.734-04:00What Did Jesus Do In His Free Time?<b> I have often thought about this question, especially lately: "What Did Jesus Do In His Free Time?" Did He do things for "fun?" The Bible never really discusses this. I know He went to a wedding feast at least once (Jn 2:1-10), and He shared meals with people on quite a few occasions (i.e. Lk 5:27-32, Lk 7:36, Lk 19:1-9). What else could He have done? I really don't know the history of what people did for leisure in those times, but I suppose they could go for a hike, go to a lake and fish or swim, go for a horseback ride, do some gardening or wood carving, play a musical instrument, go to a play, or perhaps read a book (although I don't think there were many in those days).</b><br />
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<b> Then, I think about what we can do with our "free time," or for "fun" today. The list of things to do is almost endless. We can watch t.v., listen to music or the radio, get on the internet, go to a movie, play board games or video games, go to a ballgame, go for a car ride, read a book, go to a coffee shop, restaurant, or the mall, and SO much more.</b><br />
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<b> Did Jesus do the things that were available for recreation in His time. Would He do the things we can do for recreation if He was on Earth in our time? What is said, and is true, is that the Bible only records the things about Jesus and His life that we need to know about. Since the Bible doesn't talk about Jesus' childhood (other than one brief moment in Lk 2:41-50), His appearance (we do know a little which I speak of <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/what-did-jesus-look-like">here</a>), or even all of His miraculous signs (Jn 20:30-31), this means it isn't important. This includes what He did in His free time.</b><br />
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<b> However, there comes a time each day when my brain can no longer focus. I cannot write any more. I must stop. It is my "free time." I can do anything at that point. You would think that I would want to get away from the Bible and ministering at that point, right? I should have some "fun." But, instead, the opposite is true. I want to find another way to spend time with God. Honestly, <i>that</i> is my "fun."</b><br />
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<b> Is there something wrong with me? Why is it that even when I do go to a ballgame or a restaurant with friends, all I want to do is talk about Jesus and the Bible? I want to hear about their life with Jesus, what He has done in their life, what they have learned about Him, their testimony. I want to go deep. (I know part of this has to do with being an introvert too, I HATE small talk!)</b><br />
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<b>***Note: After I finished writing this blog, I was looking at some times that Jesus ate with others in the Bible, and it appears that He was all about ministry during meals. This is interesting, and makes me happy. Hopefully, it is also going to lead to a new study soon.</b><br />
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<b> This is why I want to know what Jesus did. The primary goal for all Christians in life is to become more and more like Jesus (Eph 4:13,15)(Phil 3:12-14)(2 Cor 3:17-18)(Rom 8:29)<span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "times" , serif;"><span style="background-color: white;">.</span></span> Is this what is happening? Is this part of what it means?</b><br />
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<b> Now, don't get me wrong. This does not mean that <span style="font-style: italic;">every </span>moment of my life is all about God. I still enjoy watching my St. Louis Cardinals on t.v. when they are on (although usually with the sound muted or low so I can do something else). I play Words With Friends and Candy Crush sometimes. I have been to a few movies in recent times. But, my desire to do these things is becoming less and less. If it is between recreation, and doing something for the Lord, God's work is where I want to go (unless it is the playoffs, then I might have a dilemma, but God is still working on me.)</b><br />
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<b> All I know for sure is this; I am happy, I am at peace, I am content, and I am beyond thankful to be able to spend my days doing what I do. If God is displeased with where I am, I pray that He will reveal that to me. If people or friends are displeased, that makes me sad, but this is who I am. I cannot hide it. I do not <i>want</i> to hide it. I beg God that this passion never dies, but only grows. I pray for friends that share this passion. And, for those in my life who have it, I am SO grateful for you!</b><br />
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<b>"Turn your eyes upon Jesus</b><br />
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<b>And the things of earth will grow strangely dim</b><br />
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Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com19tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-75688261722810874822018-06-25T15:38:00.001-04:002019-03-21T22:33:34.071-04:00A Thank You Is Great, But Encouragement Is Remembered<b> Yesterday, I received some wonderful encouragement on my website ( <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/">https://jesusalive.cc</a> ). After reading it, I got into the shower and felt lead to write a blog about it. My original title was "A Thank You For The Thank You's," and I wrote a whole blog on that. However, after I finished, I realized I missed a BIG point. So, this here my second attempt.</b><br />
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<b> The story began a few days ago. I received the following comment from a man regarding one of the studies I wrote for the website: "Thanks for the write up. I stumbled across it as I was writing something else. I(t) saved me a good deal of time in research. Many thanks, Stone." I replied back, You're welcome. Glad I could help. Thanks for taking the time to let me know it helped."</b><br />
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<b> I am always thankful when someone takes the time to thank me for something I have written, or to let me know it has helped them, I should also add it doesn't happen very often.<span style="color: #2a2e2e; font-family: "georgia" , "times" , serif; font-size: 15px;"> </span><a href="https://jesusalive.cc/" style="font-family: georgia, times, serif; font-size: 15px;">JesusAlive</a> gets around several thousand visitors a day. Out of those, I would say I get one or two "thank you's" a week. Honestly, I don't do what I do for the "thank you's." I would do what I do even if no one ever said "thanks."<span style="color: #2a2e2e; font-family: "georgia" , "times" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 15px;"> </span></span>I don't do what I do to make money (although I am very thankful for those who give). I answer people's Bible questions, and write Bible studies to use my spiritual gift of teaching to impact and further the Kingdom of God. Ultimately, if I feel God is pleased, I am pleased.</b><br />
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<b> One thing I haven't shared very often is that I started JesusAlive for one primary reason: I wanted to leave a legacy for my children, their children, and generations to come. Have you ever wished you could have a conversation with your grandparents, great-grandparents, or maybe even a parent who is now deceased? Well, that was my goal. I wanted a place where they could go to learn from their parent, grandparent, uncle, or whatever I was to them, about the Bible, and to get Godly counsel. I figured people would come to the website and read the studies, but I honestly had no idea if it would ever go anywhere, However, I have been blessed and amazed to see God using it, and I give all thanks and glory to God!</b><br />
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<b> But, back to my point, when "Stone" thanked me, I appreciated it. However, to be honest, after a few days, I probably wouldn't have thought about it again. But, "Stone" didn't stop there. When someone makes a comment on the site, I receive an email letting me know. In return, when I respond, they receive an email. Stone received that email. Here was his response:</b><br />
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<b>"I almost let your thanks slide into the trash bin, but it weighed on my mind a bit, You made me feel like I was the only guy to respond or at least you only got a few, which being real honest, in today's society, being courteous in response to someone helping seems to be rare. Don't be discouraged if not too many people respond to your work. This is what came to my mind shortly after I read your comments." He then posted (Lk 17:11-19)(read this!), and followed it with: "Believe not for a minute your words do not reach out and touch many more lives than you know. Because of those like you who reach out to others, even ones you don't know, we all have the ability to accept the Son and become children of the One true God. Even barbarians like me, saved by grace. Thanks again, Stone"</b><br />
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<b> What a GREAT encouragement! Again, while appreciated his first "thank you," the follow-up encouragement is what I am going to remember. I believe this is a lesson for all of us. Hopefully, as we go through our day, we "thank" people for various things: the waiter who serves us, the person who holds the door for us, the delivery person who drops off a package, etc... At some point, we usually offer "thanks" to those who are feeding into our lives, who are encouraging us, who are blessing us, who are listening to us when we need to talk.</b><br />
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<b> However, how often do we go <i>beyond </i>this? How often do we take the time to offer some serious encouragement, a compliment they will remember? <i>THIS </i>is what can really change a life!</b><br />
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<b> I will share one more personal thing about me. My "love language" is "words of affirmation." In short, the primary way I feel love from someone is through compliments or encouragement. I didn't choose this for my love language, and probably wouldn't have if given a choice, but it was how I was created. I should also add that it is a <i>terrible</i> love language to have when working in ministry, especially when your primary ministry is writing studies to share online with nameless and faceless people.</b><br />
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<b> Working in ministry can sometimes be discouraging, and I am no exception. You might also be surprised to learn that I have a notebook, and I often write out or print out encouraging letters and thank you's I get. When times of discouragement come, I can read these. So, in closing, I want to say "THANK YOU" to each of you who have offered me a "thank you," or encouragement, or a compliment face to face, in a letter/card, on the website, or on social media sites where JesusAlive has a page. What you have written or said may well be in my notebook 😊. May we all go beyond the simple "thank you" to offer words that might be life-changing.</b>Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-84588165574593110132018-06-13T17:04:00.003-04:002021-10-03T11:11:21.696-04:00A Note To "Christians" Who Hate Donald Trump<b> I write this just a few days after yet another famous actor spewed out his hatred of President Donald Trump at a Hollywood awards ceremony. For this speech, he received a rousing ovation from his fellow colleagues. In my lifetime, I have never seen such hatred poured out upon any President (or perhaps any person at all). We see this unrelenting hatred displayed daily on the news, on late night t.v. shows, in our newspapers, on social media, and more.</b><br />
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<b> I was not a fan of former President Obama. In fact, I believe he took a stronger stand against Biblical principles (i.e. supporting same-sex marriage, abortion), than any President in history. (And, godless Hollywood loved him for it). Did I "hate" President Obama because of this? Did I take every opportunity I could to attack him? Did I make fun of his personal appearance (as many do of Trump)? No.... I prayed for him. The Bible tells us to pray for our leaders (1 Tim 2:1-3). (Note: It is virtually impossible to sincerely pray for a person you have hatred towards.) In fact, I wish I could have had a chance while he was in office (or even now) to sit down with him and share what it means to have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. To show him how Jesus could transform his life. </b></div>
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<b>*** P.S. This blog applies not only to "Christians" who hate Donald Trump, but who "hate" any person.</b></div>
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Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com27tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-63437025703655860612018-04-26T14:03:00.000-04:002019-03-21T22:24:31.726-04:00Till Death Do Us Visit?<b> I woke up this morning thinking about a t.v. commercial that I saw several years ago that I think was the greatest commercial I have ever seen. I don't remember who ran the commercial, or all of the details of it, but here is what I do remember.</b><br />
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<b> The following year, around the same time, we see the family members getting a call that the old man has died. We see the family members crying and devastated. Then, it cuts to all of the family coming through the door of the old man's house, and gathering in front of the "big table" where he had invited them all to come year after year. Their looks of grief are evident. Then, suddenly, from out of the kitchen, the old man slowly walks. The family is stunned. Smiles appear on their faces, and they are overjoyed! Then, it cuts to them all sitting around the "big table" eating and laughing, and looking at the old man lovingly.</b><br />
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<b> What a <i>great </i>message! Now, I ask you to consider this, does this apply to <i>YOU</i>? Speaking for myself, I have family, but <i>especially</i> friends that, if I died tomorrow, I have no doubt they would go to great lengths to come to my funeral to "pay their respects." However, I cannot count the number of times I have asked these same friends "out to coffee" (I don't drink coffee, but you get the idea), or to get together for lunch or dinner, or to meet up at church and do something after, or come to my "small group" some night so we can fellowship, etc..., and have been told "no," I just can't make it, or, not now, but maybe soon.</b><br />
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<b> I am also constantly amazed when I find out that friends or relatives are visiting my city, or are in the area, from another city or state and they don't even bother to try to meet up for a quick get-together. In addition, there have been friends that I found out are coming, and I have offered to briefly meet up with them, only to be rebuffed. On the other hand, there are times when I know I will be visiting a place where I have family or friends (i.e. my old hometown), and when I offer to meet up, they are also are "too busy." "Maybe next time."</b><br />
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<b> Look, I know that life is busy, and it isn't always possible to get-together. Many don't have a lot of free time today. But, if you are one who would make the time to attend my funeral if I die, can't you make some time to get together while I am still alive? While I appreciate that you would come to my funeral to "pay your respects," it really won't matter much to me then, because I will be dead. Visiting while I am alive will be much more fun.</b><br />
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<b> P.S. To those family and friends who do take the time to meet up regularly, thanks! I love you! (And, I love you who don't too, and I miss you!)</b><br />
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<b> "Skeet" was short for "Skeeter." I don't know how he get that nickname. I was "Bird," I because when I ran track and cross-country, I looked like a bird when it runs (because of my short legs). As I remember, we first met because we ran track together. As I talk about in more detail in <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/my-testimony">my testimony</a>, I was introverted, not very outgoing, and socially awkward in high school. I didn't have a lot of friends, but Skeet was one of them.</b></div>
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<b> Skeet was a very troubled young man. His home life was a mess. I could list all of the things he was dealing with that I remember, but I won't. Skeet brought much of that into our friendship. He did a lot of crazy and dangerous things. He was the first person I ever knew who was a cutter. He would cut symbols into his skin with a sharp object. He was a drinker, drag-racer, and womanizer. He was sometimes violent. I still have a scar over my eye where he jabbed me with a pool cue because I beat him in a game (he meant to just get close, but connected instead).</b><br />
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<b> However, while not exactly a good influence, he tried to be a good friend too. He stood with me when two hockey players wanted to beat me up because I was close to the girlfriend of one of them. He got me home safely one night when I drank too much. He would sneak me free food when I went to the restaurant he worked at. He would cheer me on when I was running. (One of my favorite old pictures is me running, and him screaming encouragement as I passed him.) In one track meet, Skeet, I, and two others set a Frosh / Soph school record in the 3200 meter relay. In short, Skeet was there for me when few other people were.</b></div>
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<b> When high school ended, I headed off to college in another state, and Skeet moved with his family to another city. As I remember, we talked on the phone off and on a few times over the years which followed, but we were not really close anymore. However, we did agree to meet up in our old hometown when I was going to be home during a break from college. My future wife (or maybe wife, I can't remember) and I met up with him at a local bowling alley and we had a few beers while playing pool (I don't drink anymore). We talked for quite a while, but I can't remember much of what we talked about. I do remember him talking about fathering a child, and he was concerned about her. I also remember that he seemed very sad and depressed. It was nice to see him though, and as we parted, I hoped we could get together again in the near future.</b></div>
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<b> Anyway, fast forward about 12 years, and I became a born-again Christian. My whole life changed, and many of my past struggles came to an end (over time). Now, I am sometimes left thinking "what if." I know that I came to Christ at exactly the time God knew I would, but "what if" it had been earlier. Or, what if I could go back in a time machine? I SOOO wish I could tell him what I know now. How Christ can <i>totally</i> change and transform your life. That you can have the "peace from God that passes all understanding." It is the good news that I wish I someone had told me back then.</b></div>
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<b> Obviously, I can't go back and change the past. But, I <i>can</i> learn from it, and I can tell you.There are <i>many </i>people out there today just like Skeet, and you may be friends with them. Or, perhaps, you just know them casually. Or, perhaps I am speaking to <i>you.</i><i> </i>Jesus Christ changes lives! Surrendering your life to Jesus does not mean that all problems disappear, however, you do have someone walking with you through them, and that someone is GOD in the form of the Holy Spirit. He comes to live inside of each person when they accept Jesus' payment for their sin. You can pray to Him, fellowship with Him, worship Him, and one day you will dwell with Him. He will change your life! If you want to know how to do this, please go here: <a href="http://jesusalive.cc/planofsalvation.htm">here</a>. </b></div>
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<b> Don't wait, do it now! I can't undo what was done, but I can try to help others who are struggling in the here and now, and I <i>will!</i> I plead with you to do so as well. You don't ever want to live with the regret: "If only I had said...."</b></div>
Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-40573572392301142822018-03-16T12:46:00.001-04:002019-03-21T22:29:21.312-04:00The Fiery Preacher From Peoria<b> As I was in the shower, I began to think about writing a new blog. As I pondered what to write on, I felt lead ("God In The Shower") that I should write about the church service I attended last Sunday. I was visiting my hometown in Peoria, and attended a church called Riverside Community Church. I first went to this church during Christmas Eve after strongly feeling that God was leading me to go. The pastor is an older, kindly, unassuming looking man, with a British accent, who if you asked someone "describe what your perfect grandfather would look like," it would be him. What I am trying to say is that you would not expect the words he preaches to come out of him.</b><br />
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<b> After that first service in December, I left church with a fire that I hadn't had in a while. It was awesome! This church is set in the downtown area of Peoria, in the midst of the poor, downtrodden, homeless, and gangs. They are working to change lives in the name of Jesus. The day I was there, the pastor laid out the Gospel perfectly, and at the end offered people a chance to come forward and accept Jesus as Lord and Savior. It looked like around 25 people accepted! I was so moved by what I witnessed that I have been watching the streaming service almost weekly now in Florida (after going to my church here).</b><br />
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<b> Anyway, last Sunday was the second time I have been to Riverside in person. The pastor preached a lot on Hell. One of my top complaints about the "church" today is that no one ever seems to preach on Hell anymore. So many churches are all about being "positive," and talking about the love of God (seeker friendly) rather than God's judgment, and the punishment that will one day come if one does not accept the payment of Jesus for one's sins.</b><br />
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<b> All of these things are certainly true, and we can find many examples in the Bible. However, I feel like God has shown me something regarding this. When do we most often turn to God? Isn't it when we face trials, have problems, or need something from Him? On the flip side of this, when do we least often to turn to God? Isn't it when things are going well, when we aren't sick, or when we don't really need anything?</b></div>
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<b> However, in 2017 I had perhaps the best year of my life. What a great year! My family enjoyed good health, my ministry at <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/">jesusalive.cc</a> had substantial growth, I made some new and wonderful friendships, primarily through the two Bible studies I teach (and I was privileged to baptize 3 people in one of them), and a third day of fellowship and study with a Christian brother one to one came to pass (perhaps more on this in a future blog). In addition to these, I got to spend more time praying, studying, and sharing God's Word than perhaps at any other time in my life.</b></div>
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Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-58319762053590491912018-02-22T11:12:00.001-05:002021-10-03T09:59:44.769-04:00Billy Graham<b> Yesterday, Evangelist/Pastor Billy Graham died. As I speak of in <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/my-testimony">"My Testimony"</a> , I accepted Jesus Christ as my Lord and Savior at a Billy Graham Crusade on Oct 27, 1994 in Atlanta, Georgia. Of course, this totally altered the course of my life, however, it was far more than I expected. It was also during that Crusade that I felt like God gave me a sign that He was going to use me in some powerful way. What has happened since has been nothing short of amazing. (I will not go into details on that, but it is in my testimony.)</b><br />
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Steve Shirleyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02245954621341401076noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7796522133961264591.post-7498493510671506232018-02-15T09:54:00.001-05:002021-07-01T00:11:39.404-04:00Why "God In The Shower?"<b> I have had a desire to write a blog for a long time, however I have been reluctant to do so because I do not wish to take time away from my primary website <a href="https://jesusalive.cc/">jesusalive.cc</a>. But, this morning, I woke up very early (for me) and could not go back to sleep feeling led by God to get started on this. So, here we go!</b><br />
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<b> Why the name: God In The Shower? A number of Christians claim to hear from God continually. I am not one of them. When God wants to direct me, He seems to go a different route. He gives me signs. This has happened over and over. In fact, I do what I do on JesusAlive because God has confirmed time and time again through signs that it is what He wants me to do.</b><br />
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<b> However, for some odd reason, which only God knows, the times when I feel like God is speaking to me the clearest are often when I am in the shower. I am not saying that I clearly hear an audible voice or anything like that, but I feel like God shows me different things. I have come up with new studies to write, things to add to studies, people I need to reach out to, things I need to pray about, and more. Is this God? I don't know "for sure," but I believe it is.</b><br />
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<b> As I say on the homepage of JesusAlive, the mission of my website is: "witnessing to those who do not have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ, and discipling those who do, but are seeking help in their daily walk." I have written hundreds of studies to help those coming to the website. However, the website is not really a place to share day to day things concerning my walk with the Lord, and what He is showing me. So, that is why I am here. </b><br />
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<b> I am on a mission to look for God in ALL areas of my life. I know He is always there, and I don't want to miss ANYTHING. As He moves, and shows me things (including in the shower), I want to share that with you. Prayerfully, it will encourage you to look more closely for God's hand and direction in your own life. May God bless and direct the words that will follow.</b><br />
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